• After Training
• Training Contracts
• Some common 'courses'
• An ideal on completion
• What can be explored
• General Training
• What do I look for
• Negotiating training
• Questions to answer
• Reading material
• Training Rules
• Sexual Skills Training
• Other Skills
• Stages of Training
• Starting Training
• Training techniques
• Why do I train

This is a question I have been asked more than a few times. So, as is my style, I choose to think even harder and try to put something here. Hopefully I will do a good job and enlighten both myself and you.

The purpose of the training that I am outlining and offering in these pages is not something that directly benefits me. The goal is the enlightenment and education of the submissive, to help her blossom into a role that she seeks, not a role that I choose for her. If, in the course of her learning and experimentation with me she finds pieces, or the whole, not to her liking either the pieces or the whole stop.

With that as the focus, the question becomes an even deeper one. What is in it for me if the training is for the benefit of the submissive, without cost or expectation of anything lasting beyond that. There are several pieces that motivate me to open this offer. I enjoy teaching. I'm interested in teaching professionally at some point, but at a higher educational level, and well, I have a long way to go to get a PhD yet, and otherwise don't teach for work. I like touching people and making them think, and think about themselves. I enjoy helping them to grow. (And I can enjoy all this even if I have a lot of growth to do on my own, so it's not any kind of ego issue where I think I know best. It's helping people to see themselves and where they want to be and helping them to get there.)

Another piece is that I enjoy and appreciate people. As you can see from the questions that I ask I am a very curious person. I tend to learn from anyone I seriously interact with and I very much enjoy the process and what each trainee can teach me.

Of course, I also appreciate the service. I like having D/s in my life with new people. With those trainees who want to learn, expand, explore their sexuality with me as well... well, needless to say I enjoy that greatly as well.

Lastly, I think the whole process is fun. It's a hobby, not a chore, and I hope to have the opportunity to keep doing it as long as I consider it fun (which will likely be well beyond this single lifetime).

I hope this has helped you to understand a bit more about me and why I offer my time in this fashion. As always, if you have questions, comments, or interest in this training, please contact me.