• After Training
• Training Contracts
• Some common 'courses'
• An ideal on completion
• What can be explored
• General Training
• What do I look for
• Negotiating training
• Questions to answer
• Reading material
• Training Rules
• Sexual Skills Training
• Other Skills
• Stages of Training
• Starting Training
• Training techniques
• Why do I train

This page currently under revision, please check back in a day or two and it should hopefully be done, or at least further along.

These rules are a starting point, and are much more involved than the first set of rules I put up on the web. I've moved to the more inclusive rules for a few reasons, I think they fit me and what I want and offer now better than the old did, I also think that one who is serious about learning and serving needs to be willing to focus and learn, starting with the behaviour that is expected of her. If one is serious, the time will be put in to learn and remember the rules regardless of how complicated or simple they are, and the more encompassing they are the more her life is shaped and controlled.

As training is something very individual to the person being trained, so to are the rules that I expect them to end up with. With that in mind, here is the start of a nice complex set of rules.

1. The trainee is responsable for knowing all rules and expectations placed on them during their training. To demonstrate this knowledge the trainee is expected to be able to recite the rules at any time in any order desired.

2. The trainee is responsible for keeping a daily journal/diary covering at a minimum her signifigant activities and thoughts for each day, as well as all activities directed by her Trainer and all thoughts related to her training or sexuality. The journal shall be kept in a form that can be shared with her trainer on a daily basis (email is easy, if training in person a paper journal is fine as well).

3. There is to be no sexual stimulation without her Trainer's direction. When directed any sexual stimulation will be met with great lust and zeal whether self, mechanical, or via any other person of her Trainer's choosing.

4. The trainee is responsible for maintaining her health. This includes but is not limited to:
   

   • Adequate sleep
   • Healthy eating
   • Exercise at least 3 times a week
   • No smoking
   • Moderate consumption of alcohol only
   • No chemical abuses (legal or otherwise)

5. The trainee will address her Trainer as "Dominar" in every writen or spoken communication as part of every thought or answer communicated.

6. All questions asked by her Trainer will be answered completely, openly, honestly and promptly, no matter what the subject matter or who might be in the audience to overhear.

7. The trainee shall submit only to her Trainer or those whom he explicitly designates. Submission covered by this includes vr as well as rl play, ownership or other bonding, scenes or training.

   Further, unless agreed upon prior to consumation of training, trainee is prohibited from participating in any non-platonic relationship except as directed to do so.

8. The trainee is responsible for asking for clarification of things which might be unclear in her orders or rules. She will continue to seek clarification until clarity is achieved.

9. The trainee is responsible for speaking up when too much is being asked of her - whether her time is overdemanded, or her limits are being pushed too hard. She must handle with grace any questions resulting from this for they will be to learn, not to continue to push.

While these are not complete, they are a good starting point. Rules do end up customized for each trainee, as each person is handled individually.