My words are far from the best, and do not often convey the power and eroticism that can be found in BDSM relationships, nor can I always manage to explain in a detached manner different aspects of BDSM. For that reason I am recommending the following books to help convey things in a way that I can not. Each is here not because it is the best, but because there are definitely elements I think important to learn (on either side of the whip). Because they are fiction they are more free with the mind than is often possible in a real relationship.

• Story of O
• Exit to Eden
• The Marketplace
• The Slave
• The Trainer

These titles are all available from my bookstore as well as many other locations on the web and many times from a bookstore local to you.