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Since each person has different goals, desires, fears, needs and limits in submission, each will also have different objectives and ends in any kind of training. These are things that should be clarified before any serious training begins to prevent problems from arising during the training period.

Questions which you should be prepared to answer include:

  • What you want from submission/slavery/service
  • Specific things you would like to be trained for
  • Specific things you would like to explore
  • As many limits as you can elaborate
  • A list of things you think you need to do to consider your training complete
  • Why you wish to go through training

My role as you trainer is to facilitate your exploration of submission/slavery. There are some things which I beleive to be part of what the role of a submissive/slave is yet which may not fit with what you are trying to become. These are not necessarily all that important to me unless you should choose to enter a longer term arrangement than just a training.

There are some things which I will try to get you to do as much as possible:

  • Physical lack of privacy
  • Mental lack of privacy
  • Kneeling positions

There are some things on which I will not bend. If you choose to enter training under me, then these are things you must agree to:

  • Complete honesty
  • Communication - while things are on the net, this means daily email in the form of a dairy/journal as well as normal email conversations and some mechanism for a more real time conversation for at least an hour a week (chat systems, phone, etc)
  • At least 3 months RL time, this should be broken into periods of not less than one week
  • Agreement to my training rules
  • A tattoo - exact size and position to be negotiated. It will be a panther leaping from a storm cloud with a bit of lightning around it



Last modified on Tuesday, 26-Sep-2000 11:07:31 EST

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