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A suprisingly large number of people ask me what their life as my slave would be like. I can't answer that specifically because it depends so much on the individual.

I am someone who reacts to others and builds off of them and their interests. If you are a programmer, then I will give you more tasks for me involving programming than I would give you tasks which having you sculpt things for me. I have enough ideas that I can use or direct any talents which you have, and I will. I want someone who is capable of being submissive in nearly (ideally totally) every part of their life. I will ask anything of you, whether to learn how to repair a car, build an addition to the house, walk with the grace of a cat, or teach me all you can about quantum physics. You will always be challenged to grow beyond yourself in serving me, and to take your submission to a new level constantly.

Slavery is far more than just sexual. Though sex is often involved with many peoples ideas of what a good slave is, sex is not even part of what being a slave is about. Yes, a slave will give of herself willingly and enthuastically in any sexual sense, and she will have her own sex-drive which a good master will try to satisfy in one way or another (punishments, or special training periods excepted).

Being a slave however is about service, and obedience. It is about placing yourself in a position where you take dirction from another in all aspects of your life. You should not be doing so blindly, but always with the ability to question (though once your Master/Mistress has made a decision, you have to respect it, even if you know s/he is wrong).

Serving is about patience and anticipation. You have to be able to get through the boring and mundane tasks, to anticipate when your Master will want his coffee, tea, soda, and/or beer (or whatever) and to judge correctly what he will want. Patience to learn his quirks, moods, signs and desires, and the anticipation to keep him happy. Without these traits and a willingness to observe and learn, mastery of submission will elude you.

It is also about living your fantasy. You should not be getting into slavery unless it is something you want. If you try otherwise, say for example to serve because the one you love wants a slave, you will only end up resenting him/her, and damaging your relationship. You have to be a slave for yourself, first and foremost, all the time. Though you may try it for someone else, you have to continue doing it as a lifestyle for you.

Life as my slave should end up being something you like because you like being a slave. There will be variety in it because I am not static myself, I am more fascinated with things at some times rather than others (from an idea that I really want to capture with a camera to a stroy I want to write to trying to figure out how to make a full-body casting of sometone - hmm... ok... all creative ideas... how about reading up on quantum mechanics or learning how to sail as well :). Sex will be involved and required, but not necessarily daily... I'm not sure how many slaves I will end up having as permanent parts of my life, but a lot of what life as my slave will be will depend on that.

The rest of this used to be the only thing I was looking for... now, I'm not so sure... I keep growing and changing, and some things which used to really matter don't so much any more. I'm going to leave it here as it's still something which could be nice, but it's not at all a definite need anymore in my life.

For a family of slaves I am looking for a group who can get along together extremely well, who will not be threatened by each other, who will complement each other in interests in and out of bed, who will be each others best friends, and who are attracted to each other as well as to me. I have no real size goal for this family, but want it to be comfortable for everyone involved. Actually desire to be a full-time slave isn't something which is mandatory for a girl to be part of this family... just so long as at all times there is at least one who is acting as a slave to be at my beck and call, and I have the illusion that I am always the one who is in charge and has the final say over the whole family.

Sleeping arrangements would be pretty flexible, and organized on a loose rotation, unless we can all comfortably fit in one big bed. Cats as always have preference in choosing where they sleep, everyone else fits in around them.

Additions to the harem/family will be done unamiously only. Everyone has to get along and really make it one family, otherwise it will never work. I want to train for as long as I have something to teach and can continue to do the job of education. I anticipate training will be done eventually with 'classes' of 2-3, staggered at 6 month intervals, lasting for about a year of live in time. As each student reaches the end of her training those who are committed permanently to my family and I will sit down and figure out if we would like to invite the new graduate to be to stay, though she is free to decline. I have no firm idea as to a minimum or maximum number of women I would like permanently committed to the family but do want a variety of people with whom to share my life and my bed.